Tuesday, February 14, 2006

Huh??

When the Valentines comes..

a) a rose = a ticket to watch a new movie in TGV KLCC
b) a workstation = a display for bouquet of flowers
c) a candlelight dinner = one month petrol
d) KL road = a massive traffic jam!!

Some of my colleagues keep asking what is the valentine's gift from my hubby. Simple answer "I dont celebrate Valentines" and it did surprised them. I dont agree on the idea to show your love on the certain date + wasting your savings just to express your love.

Love is beautiful but love is not to burden you. It is more meaningful if we share the laughter and the tears. You could judge a person straight to his/her that he/she is falling in love with you. Love is something that you should treasure everyday and appreciate it each and every momment, so why must we have 14 February?? Tak payah laa. Kan kan..

p/s thanks to Allah because rewarding Emran Mohd Tamil in my life - Love him so much..

Monday, February 13, 2006

Hey hey hey

Alohaa, its already 9.03pm and yet im still in the office. Well staying in the office during this odd hours is quite common for me but not today as i have to wait for my hubby instead he waits for me. Honestly, I do have a lot lot of works to be done, but yet im so tired and drowsy to finish it. I wish someone will give me a nice bed embedded with a comfy comforter so i can swim into it and dreams all night long.

But as a matter of fact, currently im in the midst of completing this 2005 compliance season. Those of you who do not know what the compliance season means - well, it is actually the busiest month(s) in the year for all audit / professional staffs. As for me, feb - april would really drive me crazy. Pity to my baby, he also has to follow his mummy footsteps to work during the weekends, public holidays and late at night.

A few of my friends did advice me to resign and concentrate on my pregnancy and my family. But to tell you the truth, I am truly happy on what i have now. A supporting husband and a challenging job. Yerp, i repeat - I love my job even though it cause me a big headache, unneccessary pressure and limitation of time. Time with my family and friends.

Wedding bell in March. Nadilla (jasinian) will be getting married in the middle of March with her love of his life, an architect, but sorry dear, i definitely not able to attend the ceremony in Terengganu. Nice story on how they met. Coincidently, like people said, jodoh takkan ke mana.

Next, Ise and Kak Umei, hubby's friend. His bestman. Hhee. Ni wajib pergi, as we are very close to each other.

Ok, lagi satu.. emm better to announce here as im not officially invited.

Ok, tadaaa.. hubby dah kat bawah..

Monday, February 06, 2006

Is it me??

Went to a family wedding yesterday and the most favorite questions among my relatives is "Mira, badan naik!!". At a first glance, I am comfortable to witness the future "incredible hulk" but of course I will always thinking how am i going to lose my weight. Up till now, i gain about 7kg and FYI the ideal weight for pregnant woman is supposedly to the maximum of 10kg. Ni baru half way. ehehe.

Cepat. Last visit to the gynea, I dint put on weight at all but now 7kg!! Wah laa baby.. Do i enjoy my pregnancy? The answer should be YES!!

I am lucky because I did not experience nausea or morning sickness, and as far as i can remember, I vommitted twice during the first trimester. Alhamdulillah. But the unlucky experiences are I fell down twice in 4 months and bleeding.

But above all, during this pregnancy, my husband said I become more mengada-ngada and manja. Honestly it is soo not me. The funniest thing is I can easily cried even for a small small thing. Imagine..

1. Dearie change the TV channel, I cried
2. Well, everyday I always ask Dearie whether I am beautiful or not, so one day when I ask the same question, and he answered differently, pun I cried even though I know he was joking
3. Dearie forgot to kiss me in the morning, I cried
4. Dearie nak masuk toilet pun, I cried
5. Dearie tak buat susu, I cried
6. Dearie tanak tukar baju yang I nak, pun I cried
7. Dearie tanak tolong ikat kan rambut, pun I cried

and the list goes on. And seriously, it almost happened everyday with different-different story. Dearie somehow asked me, that he never heard any of his friend's wife, cousins sharing the same story like us. Kadang-kadang nangis sampai tersedu-sedu. Kalau nak ikutkan, memang jenuh jugaklah Em nak pujuk. And he sometimes said "Aik, itupun nangis". Again, I am not pretending, it comes naturally but after I cool down, we both will laugh.

Is it a sign that my baby suke nangis.. Harap-harap tak.. :)

Sunday, February 05, 2006

Today is Friday

Macam Mira cerita dalam previous post, hari Jumaat memang banyak bende mira tunggu. Yerp, satu-satunya hari yang mira boleh amik cuti, sebab lepas ni cuti kene beku sampailah habis orang bayo income tax. So, bile dah jadi hari cuti of cos macam-macam plan nak buat. Penat la jugak semalam baru balik dari Melaka, jenguk mak mertua, lame dah tak balik sane.

Hari Jumaat 3/2/06

Breakfast dengan Samah, Alif, hanis dengan Nad. Tak bagi tau derang pun kate nak datang sebab takut janji tapi tak jadi datang. Janji pukul 9 pagi, tapi pukul 9.15 baru terbangun tido. Confirm dah lambat gile. So terus telefon samah kate we are coming but a bit late.

Bile sampai-sampai je dekat NZ tu, tengok-tengok si alip ngan samah je ade. Lagi my sweet two girls tak jadi datang sebab ade hal. So, kiterang pun start laa borak, tambah-tambah dengan alif sebab last sekali jumpe die mase kiterang punyer wedding, tu pun tak sempat nak cakap panjang, say hi pade jauh je. Tengah borak punyer borak, sekali terjumpe la pulak my ex student mase kat stamford. Comel kan. As usual, banyak jugak bercerite dengan ex student.

Dah habis borak dengan student, sambung balik dengan derang. Macam-macam cerite. Good to have them especially when we have been as friends for ages. Ingat lagi si alip terlompat sane terlompat sini mase kat 2 bakti 3 bakti kat sekolah melawati, sekarang, our future doctor to be.

We ended our "meeting" dalam pukul 11, sebab mira pun nak pergi jumpe gynea. Tapi kiterang singgah dulu dekat bank, hehe kene lah top up duit before jumpe gynea, tapi mak aiii ramai gile orang kat bcb. Beratur punyer beratur, dah la satu atm machine, sekali duit habis pulak. So amik duit kat maybank, pun same.. Ade 13 orang depan Dearie dengan satu machine.

Ok actually, Mira ngan Em memang dah decide nak tukar gynea sebab.. ade banyak sebab actually. So dalam kerete tu, siap tak decide lagi nak pergi mane. At first ingat nak pi gomen punyer je, sebab under Em, tapi pikir punyer pikir lame la pulak nak kene tunggu. Was thinking to go to Ampang Puteri, tapi bile teringatkan Ampang Puteri ni uncertained sikit in terms or chargeability, so last-last kiterang pergi kat Damai Hospital kat Melawati je. Actually that place was recommended by my aunt too and also Samah and Alip.

So pergilah kat Damai tu, Emran was surprised to see that Damai is not just Damai but also presentable. And paling best, dapat gynea perempuan + Malay + Islam and she will be my gynea until the end of my pregnancy.

Ok, sampai sane, as usual, each visit kene buat urine test and dekat sini urine test die pelik gile. Hehehe. Keluar masuk, keluar masuk mira kat toilet. Kejap masuk, lepas tu keluar balik tanye nurse.

Sebenarnyer mira takut nak jumpe gynea kali ni, sebab mira takut nak tengok result for this visit. Sebab musababnye, ingat tak mira ade cerite mase mira jatuh tu, yerp. Mira jatuh boleh tahan jugak kedebubnyer and lepas tu mira tak pi check doktor. Nak kate confident tak jugak, tapi entahlaa, i have the feeling that my baby is ok. Ramai jugak orang marah mira tak pergi jumpe gynea...

Bile doktor tu check, alhamdulillah everything is ok, tapi bile doktor dah suruh baring nak scan, mira dah start dup dap dup dap. Serious punyer dup dap. Once the doktor letak bende alah tu dekat perut mira, straight away mira nampak heartbeat my baby. Alhamdullillah. Tapi tu pun gynea tak cakap ape-ape lagi. Husband mira sorang ni dah seronok dah tengok anak die.

Doktor pun cerite lah.. Lebih kurang la ni

"Nampak tak tu kepala baby, in this stage most of the organ dah function except for the hearing. Selalu nyer baby boleh dengar bile dah 24 minggu, mase tu boleh la bagi die headphone suruh die dengar ape-ape. (Dalam hati mira: Aiyaa yang mira ngadu-ngadu kat baby,cakap sorang-sorang tu die tak dengar lagi laa rupenyer) Tu tangan die, haa tu tangan kanan die. (My baby love to pose in front of the screen, tetibe je tangan kanan die angkat)..Ni kaki die, kecik lagi kaki die ni. Kalau sekarang ni berat die dalam 250 gram. Memang lebih kurang berat baby untuk this stage. But your placenta is slightly low, but dont worry, sikit-sikit die naik, tapi kalau die tak naik is still ok.

bla bla bla...

Tetibe em tanye,

"Eh, bukan die tengah pusing ngadap kite ke"

Doktor pun cakap

"Haa.. baby u all tengah tengok u all. nampak tak mate die.."

I love you my dear baby.

Mira pulak tanye

"Doktor, boleh tak nak tau gender baby"

"You nak tau? Baby dah in this position (ngadap kiterang), senang laa nak tengok"

Mule-mule ingat nak surprise, tapi mira biase laa tak sabo nak tau. Last-last bile doktor bagi tau gender die, my Dearie dah senyum meleret. Suke betul suami kite sorang ni. Mira tak kesah, but only what i can say, I am really happy to give my love one the happiest time in his life.

And i love both of HIM..

Dah lame cakap-cakap dengan doktor, baru laa mira reveal yang mira terjatuh dah dua kali. Last sekali jatuh baru lagi, tapi alhamdulillah once again doktor kate

"Dont worry, no proven of any part of placenta is bleeding, but next time, mesti extra careful"

For a zillion times, I just nodded.

Lepas scan, mira kene amik blood test. It is a must for every pregnant woman on their 4th months. Doktor check-check kat lengan, tapi tak jumpe tempat nak cucuk, so kene la cucuk kat belakang tapak tangan. Dearie, hampeh je, die boleh gelak-gelak mase mira nak cucuk. Die kate best tengok sebab tau tempat tu sakit sikit kalau darah amik kat situ.

Keluar je dari bilik doctor tu, my Dearie dah bising bising..

"Ye-ye, lepas ni dah ade geng nak semakkan rumah".. ohh boy..

Lepas je balik jumpe gynea, I went to the office kejap, pergi jumpe another doctor and so on and so call. Tak interesting pun nak cite…

And since my Dearie get to know the gender of his child, macam-macam laa conversation die dengan baby ni and it is funny to listen a father-to-be talking with his unborn baby. Paling tak best, kalau mira nak mintak ape-ape, kadang-kadang abang kite ni buat dek je, tapi bile cakap "Bang, baby mintak ni" Dan dan die zoom!!! Sepantas kilat bangun and tolong si mira ni. Hai..

Wednesday, February 01, 2006

Saje saje

Actually, I dont have any idea to write. Basically I do but I am soo lazy at the momment. Wanna spend the rest of my holidays with my love one and waiting for this Friday with full of suspense.

Saturday, January 28, 2006

Typing with frustration

When you have no liability, you do enjoy your life but the other part of the world, you have created the negative perception what have been thought, listen and read.

Honestly today, I was so pissed off with the organization which should be there to help us in developing a good friendly enviroment towards the society and being responsible to the rules and regulations that has been gazetted in the Act.

Yerp, I really want to share the full story on what happen to me today but since there will be some sensitive issue, (yerp they are always right konon-kononnya especially when it comes to bab saman-menyaman), I will just keep it as P&C.

But the truth is, I will remember their face, their attitudes and their names FOREVER.

You dont understand a thing?? Ignore it

Tuesday, January 17, 2006

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABANG!!


This picture was taken during our honeymoon trip in Tioman Island.

It has been a few hours since I last saw you and I missed you already. This is the first time you are away from me after our ijab and Kabul. Remember the first year during our courtship? We only had our date once a month or once in two months and nothing seems affected my daily routine life. But for only a few hours, I started to miss you desperately.

At first I thought you have given me some "space" to clean up your mess, washing your clothes, using the Internet without your annoying disturbance and conquering the Astro channel. But at last I admit, I hated the fact that no one will feed me the medicine, ensuring me to drink two glasses of milk per day, switch off the light, doing the stupid jokes and keep me company wherever I need you.

Abang, when you passed the car key to me at EY, kiteee gile-gile nak ikut. It even worst when you hugged and kissed me on my forehead and cheek. Plus, thinking that I cannot celebrate your 26th birthday at 12 sharp, lagi frust. But, I know you are doing something for our brighter future and fulfilling part of my dream.

What ever it is, we both miss you so much..


That was written yesterday when I was staying alone in the house thinking about my hubby. Err, missing him actually. Yerp, for the first time after I am officially being his wife, my mobile phone is glued in my hand. And after a few conversation, I was jokingly forcing him to return back to KL today (Joking + memang nak pun) and surprisingly, at around 6pm, Dearie is back!! and he is patiently waiting for me down the road from my office. Yeye.. :D

Abang, now it is only a few minutes before you reach 26. Definitely, I will force you to wake up!! Hehe. Abang, there is no special gift that i have planned for, but the only thing that I could give is my love for you, now and forever. Muah!!! I will try to accomplish your wish :p. Oh, I asked him what he wants for his birthday and he just said "Berhenti garu-garu sane sini, sebulan pun jadi". Hmm, a simple wish but it is hard for me to do. FYI, it is only happened during my pregnancy.

Friday, January 13, 2006

This week - please pray for..

This week from Sunday up to this Friday, I..

a. It was my very first time Hari Raya Haji as a wife. Really bahagia. Please pray for us.


b. FELL DOWN for the second time and it happened in EY's surau + during weekend. Luckily I was there with my collegue. Slippery floor but it is not a good reason to escape from listening to my parents and my hubby long long long blabbing. Hey, it is not funny ok, I was scared, really really scared because it was far more dangerous than before. I remembered the first thing I asked my friend "Ade ape-ape tak, hows my baby?" Yerp, it was painful. I am not clumsy, i am not careless and i am aware that i am already in my second trimester. Of course I want to be the best mummy in the world, but this thing happened so fast. I am not sure whether it is fortunate or not because my bump hits the floor first and not my tummy. Hmm.. I hope everything goes well. Please pray for my baby.

c. It is confirmed that i will pursue my ACCA starting from December sitting. So 13 papers to go with i assume, it takes more than 3 years to complete it. Please pray for me.

d. Please pray for kesejahteraan muslimin dan muslimat di seluruh dunia terutama keluarga, rakan taulan dan jiran.

Friday, January 06, 2006

An Arabian Guy


My workstation, semak kan.. and actually there are more files around me.. More files=More Work

I had been asked by my boss to meet an IRB (Inland Revenue) officer in Kg. Attap today. I reached there around 4+, so it is not worth for me to go back to the office even though the workload is piling up. Well, for me, I dont mind to stay back late in the office but once I step out from the office, seriously there is no turning back.

Usually dearie will be my "so call driver" but today he had a meeting so I took a taxi to Kg. Attap. Called Hana, on my way to Kg. Attap who I believe is still in her goooooooddd moood after having, I would say pre honeymoon trip to Japan.. chewahh. But, pity her, I spoilt her mood with my story. Honestly, hubby is the best person to listen to my daily routine, but today I couldnt help myself to keep the story.. and since hubby was having a meeting, so Hana laa orang yang dituju-tuju. Luckily today she is on leave.

Thereafter, I went to Mid Valley to wait for my hubby. Reason - I lost my housekey, so balik pun tak gune. To tell you the truth, I treated myself nicely this week. Almost everyday, we went to the shopping complex and I wont let myselg going home with empty hand. I just buy watever i feel i like it. Now, im eyeing for one dress at Mother's Club but unfortunately, my saving shows that I need to postpone.

Theres something interesting story happened today when I was in woman department at Jusco. An Arabian guy approached me and our conversation lebih kurang macam ni laa

Arabian Guy: "Err, do you speak English?"
Me : "Yes"
AG : "Why are you wearing this" and his fingers pointed to my Baju Kurung
Me : "Wat?" I was puzzled
AG : "Yeah, why are you wearing this"
Me : "Oh, because today is Friday, and I just came back from work"
AG : "Why everyone is not wearing this"
Me : "Maybe, they are coming from home, plus this is shopping complex, usually we wants to look more casual"
AG : "Where did you work"
Me : "Somewhere nearby"
AG : "You know, I tried to find everywhere like you, wearing scarf and this"
He keeps pointing baju kurung as THIS. He continued..
"I went to KLCC, Mid Valley, but no one wearing this, I wonder why"
Me : "Sir, do you need any help?"
AG : "Nope, I just curious, thank you. Assalammualaikum"

And our conversation ended there. Hmm.. Fikir-fikirlah..

Tuesday, January 03, 2006

Goodbye 2005

Bye bye 2005.. 2005 in memory

January
- Resign from Stamford
- Register as a new student in PAAC

February
- nothing interesting

March
- My birthday - wat else
- Preparation for kenduri

April
- Super preparation for kenduri

May
- Completed 3 months conversion program at PAAC
- 21 st May - KAWIN KAWIN KAWIN

June
- Went to several job interviews
- Pass the MICPA program

August
- 2 months as a housewife, dah too contented

September
- Being employed as EY staff
- Learn how to adapt between work and family

October
- Bought a condo

November
- Im PREGNANT!!
- Bleeding
- First Raya with hubby

December
- Rase nak berenti keje - hahaha

Anyway, went to visit my aunt who has just deliver her 5th son. But we (my hubby and sisters) are much more interested to snap photos with her only daughter rather than the new born baby. hehe. isnt she is adorable??


Baby without name :)


Lina Khalida with her brother


With Lina


Cute kan


Mimi with Lina


Ainun with Lina

As usual, budak kecik memang takut sangat dengan si Em ni, kalau tak takut, my Dearie yang takut nak pegang. Orang suruh pegang, asyik ngelat je kan bang?? :p
 

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